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In the last section, we discussed three social implications related to anorexia nervosa. These three social implications included: economic demographics; the diet fad; and conflicting media images.
In this section, we will examine three aspects of early development in clients diagnosed with anorexia nervosa. These three aspects of early development in anorexic clients include: prematurely matured; identity development; and parental messages.
3 Aspects of Early Development
♦ Aspect #1 - Prematurely Mature
They do not trust their authority figures to place boundaries on them or trust them to keep them from harm. Many times, this prematurely matured child deals in black and white viewpoints, resulting in perfectionism. Because these children are so ambitious and thus successful in their endeavors, parents see nothing wrong in their behavior. In fact, a perfectionist child may be seen as a gift. Obviously, this perfectionist child is at a high risk for anorexia.
Courtney, age 14 and weighing a frightening 52 pounds, lost her mother at the age of 7. Since then, she has had to raise two younger siblings and take care of an alcoholic father. Forced into this situation, Courtney was also forced to give up her childhood. After so much responsibility had been placed on her shoulders, Courtney left no room for failure.
She stated, "If I let my family down or I make a mistake, the whole thing will fall apart. I am the screw keeping everything together! If I am not home to make dinner, no one will eat. If my dad is left by himself, he starts drinking and can’t watch my brothers!" This unattainable ideal Courtney, as set out for herself, translated into an eating disorder. The same perfection she demanded in her housework she also demands in herself.
Think of your Courtney. Was he or she a prematurely matured child?
♦ Aspect #2 - Identity Development
Instead, these clients turn to mass culture and its messages. As examined before, this can include mixed messages of image and fashions that can be dangerous to a client’s self-image. Unable to reach parents for refuge, these clients are left to their own devices when choosing particular routes to identity and security.
Delia, age 12, emulated movie stars and models and weighed-in at about 67 pounds. Like Courtney discussed earlier in this section, Delia had had no mother growing up. As a result, Delia had no positive female role model. Instead, she looked to magazines and movie stars to provide an example of womanhood. As you might have guessed, Delia saw in these women unspeakable beauty and tiny waists. Delia stated, "I kind of wish these women were my mother. They could cook for me and then we would do each other’s nails and go running together."
Delia had placed these skinny figures up on pedestals and used them as an expectation for her own development of womanhood. Think of your Delia. Is his or her anorexia a result of a lack of a model of adulthood?
♦ Aspect #3 - Parental Messages
Sometimes, these messages are spoken and other times the message must be inferred which can result in miscommunication. For example, if a child is never told that he or she is pretty or smart, he or she will always believe that they are ugly or unintelligent. Mistakenly, parents believe that children will just assume they have positive attributes without verbal confirmation.
Jenna, age 19, could easily bring up negative attributes about herself. She stated, "If I had to make a list of the top three things wrong with me, it would be that my hips are too wide, my nose is crooked, and I could use an undershirt instead of a bra!" When Jenna had left one of our sessions, I asked her mother, Tricia, to come into my office.
I asked Tricia if she thought Jenna was a pretty girl. Tricia stated, "Of course she’s pretty! Why, she’s beautiful!" I then asked Tricia if she ever told Jenna she was pretty, to which she replied, "No, I never wanted her to get a swollen head." I told Tricia, "Jenna will never believe she is pretty until you support that concept yourself. Without that sort of confirmation, she has no other reason not to believe she is ugly. Children and teens are rarely, if ever, spoiled by compliments that are sincere. They need all the support they can get, whether it’s about their appearance, intelligence, character or personality."
Think of your Jenna. Could his or her parents be sending the wrong identity message?
♦ Technique: Positive Recollections Letter
The next week, Tricia showed me the letter for review. It included the following passage:
In this section, we discussed three aspects of early development in clients diagnosed with anorexia nervosa. These three aspects of early development in anorexic clients included: prematurely matured; identity development; and parental messages.
In the next section, we will examine four similarities between anorexic and phobic clients. These four similarities between anorexia and phobia include: mental distortions; stress; destructive emotions; and rituals.
Fostering a Healthy Body Image: Prevention and Intervention
- Giles, M. and Hass, M. Fostering a Healthy Body Image: Prevention and Intervention