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 Section 9 Ethical Boundary Challenges Facing Therapists in a Small Town
 By Janel J. Brush
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Health practitioners in rural settings are confronted with ethical dilemmas on 
a daily basis with regards to confidentiality, dual relationships, and boundary 
issues. The following article will address several situations involving these 
issues and practical solutions in handling these potential ethical dilemmas without 
compromising the practitioners commitment to their Professional Code of 
Ethics. In 
small towns, people often joke that what you do beats you home, makes headlines 
in the local paper, or is the main topic of conversation at the beauty and coffee 
shops. For obvious reasons, confidentiality can be somewhat problematic for the 
practitioner. As a school therapist, the clients I work with many times end up 
being one of the following: the child/children of a neighbor, my insurance agent, 
grocer, police officer, all the way down the line to my personal friends. It would 
be great if there was another school counselor to refer these cases to, but unfortunately, 
Im it! How can these ethical gray areas be dealt with?  How 
to Set Boundaries on GossipFirst, let us visit about confidentiality. 
The best practice, in order to eliminate confidentiality problems, is only to 
share information about clients with those people whom the client has signed a 
release of information for. The client needs to be told this unwritten rule up 
front. Then, if someone in the community has privy information, it is either because 
the client has shared that information or someone who I have signed a release 
for has shared. By having releases signed, it covers me legally and puts the responsibility 
back on the clients and their providers to maintain confidentiality. Another issue 
faced almost on a daily basis is constantly being in situations where people are 
discussing children/parents that I am working with. The information being discussed 
may not even have any merit or, on the other hand, may be true. It is very difficult 
not to want to set the record straight, but the best thing to do is to exit the 
area (teachers lounge, break room, local eating establishment) if at all 
possible. If you cant leave, you need to refrain from comment. If asked 
a question directly, it is best to tell people you cant discuss the case 
without a release of information signed by the client allowing you to do so. Sometimes, 
people are not happy with this response, and on occasion, I have mentioned that 
Im sure they wouldnt want me to share their personal information if 
the tables were turned. This usually pacifies the majority, but as always, you 
cant please everyone.
  A 
Way to Handle Dual RelationshipHaving a professional relationship with 
people you do business with in the community is another ongoing issue. A few of 
these people may include the following: your physician, clergy, department of 
human services, public health, your childs teacher, and numerous others. 
If at all possible, one should try to limit these connections, especially if the 
person is your client in your professional capacity, as it puts the practitioner 
in a one-up position which skews boundaries, and may even cause the client to 
feel obligated to give you special treatment that they wouldnt give under 
other circumstances. For example, you are working with one of the local law enforcement 
officers children, and he/she stops you for speeding. Upon seeing you, they 
say they will give you a warning. My response would be, If you didnt 
know me, would you give me a warning? If their response is no, they would 
give me a ticketI would have to insist that they write me up. Crazyyes, 
but ethically sound. The best rule of thumb, again, is to try and avoid those 
dual relationships if at all possible. (If they cant be avoided, discuss 
openly with the client, up front, what problems could occur, and try to be active 
problem-solvers rather than reactive after the fact. Engage the client by empowering 
him/her to come up with a plan to assist in dealing with the potential issues 
that you both have brainstormed.
 Setting 
Boundaries in Public PlacesWhat about those times when clients feel compelled 
to share their life story or latest life event with the practitioner in the grocery 
store, gas station, laundry mat, church, and numerous other public places.
 Grocery 
Store EncounterLets talk about how each of these situations might 
be handled should they arise. For example, Julie (a client) approaches me in the 
produce aisle at the grocery store. Julie starts to tell me about the huge fight 
she and her daughter got into the previous night. Several people we both know 
are within hearing distance. I take Julie aside and model by whispering, Julie, 
it would be better if we could discuss this in a more private place. Would it 
work for you to come by my office tomorrow at 3:15pm? Julie says, Yes, 
and I respond, Great, Ill talk to you then. I then proceed to 
another section of the store and return to the produce on my way out of the store. 
Ive just done two things. First, I gave Julie a definite time so she knew 
she would have a chance to talk, and secondly, Ive assisted her by modeling 
how she should be talking about private matters (i.e., voice tone and place).
 Using 
Redirection to Set a BoundaryMy next example finds me pumping gas at 
the local gas station. Tom, one of my special needs students, is riding his bike 
by and sees me. He approaches me with a big grin and says, Mrs. Brush, you 
know that problem I have with wiping? I went all day today and didnt get 
any on my underwear. I reply in a soft voice, Thats great Tom. 
This is one of those things we talked about that is private. So next time, I know 
youll remember to tell me when we meet at school. What if I 
forget?, says Tom. Whisper to your teacher to write it down for you 
along with anything else youd like to tell me. Tom says, OK, 
Mrs. Brush, and rides off on his bike. In this situation, the words were 
already out of Toms mouth before I could redirect him, so I tried to salvage 
the conversation by making it into a learning experience.
 Exit 
the SceneNow the laundromat poses some interesting boundary issues. Not 
only do you have clients approaching, you but you also have other people who feel 
at liberty to share a wealth of information with you about your clients. It might 
look and sound something like this: Im putting my rugs in the washing machine 
when two girls approach me and say, Do you work with Danielle Thompson? 
My response, Im not allowed to tell people who I work with. It is 
confidential. Well, shes been leaving her children alone while 
she goes out drinking. Weve told DHS (Dept. of Human Services), and they 
havent done a thing about it. I say, Thats frustrating. 
It sounds like you are really concerned about the children, and you have done 
everything within your power. I politely excuse myself and exit the laundromat. 
Ive not broken confidentiality, as I didnt acknowledge that I work 
with Danielle, and I attempted to validate their concerns without engaging in 
the conversation.
 Take 
Control of the ConversationWhat does one do when confronted at church 
of all places? Several teachers attend the same church as I do. They sometimes 
have difficulty catching me during school hours, so they find church a prime opportunity 
to discuss children we are jointly working with. For example, Sara, a special 
education teacher, stops me outside the sanctuary and says, We need to have 
a meeting about Gonzales. They leave for three months every winter, and Hernandez 
is missing too much school. I respond, When is a good time to call 
you tomorrow to discuss this? Sara states, Call before 8:30am and... 
I quickly cut her off with Great - talk to you then, and head into 
the sanctuary.
 Calls 
at Home!How about when the practitioner is sitting down at home to enjoy 
a rare meal with the entire family, and a client, who doesnt see a problem 
reaching you at home, calls? More than likely, your number is in the book, or 
they know someone who has it. And of course, the best one yet, thanks to technology, 
they have caller ID. I feel the best way to handle such occurrences is to be preventative. 
I tell clients up front that their lives are private, and what they have to say 
is very important. I discuss with them that in such a small town, we will likely 
run into each other, and I would prefer for them to call and set up an appointment, 
so I can give them the attention and privacy they deserve rather than discussing 
their personal lives in public. When a person does start sharing information, 
I politely remind them about our initial conversation, and ask them to please 
call me at the office where we wont be interrupted and excuse myself. I 
also tell my clients that I will not take calls at home unless it is an emergency, 
and I define emergency as potentially life threatening events. I also give them 
800 numbers for emergency hotlines. I try to screen my calls at home, and if by 
chance someone calls, I ask if it is an emergency and explain that my time with 
my family is limited and ask that they contact me the following day during office 
hours.
 Boundaries 
with FriendLast but not least, what do you do when a personal friend 
asks you to provide services to them or one of their family members? It is best 
practice not to provide professional services to friends at all costs. If you 
provide services and it is a success, sometimes this can be pulled off, but if 
things dont work out as the friend has imagined, the friendship is often 
damaged beyond repair. I try to explain this to my friends before the situation 
arises and give them a list of resources if needed. As a last resort, I have completed 
ADHD evaluations, screened for depression and other mental health concerns with 
the agreement that the information would be given to another professional to assess. 
In those cases, I kept strictly to factual diagnosis symptomology as substantiated 
by the DSM-IV criteria.
 Avoiding 
Clouded JudgmentFinally, as a rural practitioner, it is important to 
stick to what you know to be the truth/facts and not let gossip or other information 
cloud your judgment. You need to avoid work and social situations that will compromise 
your ethical standards when possible. You constantly need to be troubleshooting 
and thinking in a preventative fashion. It is helpful to discuss these ethical 
situations with the client in the initial visit, and give them the opportunity 
to make an educated decision on whether or not to pursue a therapeutic relationship 
with you or seek outside resources. Most of all, dont become the Lone 
Ranger. Make sure you have someone to discuss these ethical dilemmas with and 
get feedback. This will also help you to avoid burnout, which is another dilemma 
facing social workers that can be discussed at length at a later date.
 
 - Brush, Janel J. (2005). Employed by Healthcare Training Institute to research and write the article Ethical Boundary Challenges Facing Therapists in a Small Town.
 Bio - Janel Jean Brush, LISW, Jefferson, Iowa, with experience in domestic violence, Licensed Independent Social Worker currently working at an area education agency as a school social worker, work history as youth counselor for shelters and group   homes, department of human service worker, and psychiatric technician.
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 Peer-Reviewed Journal Article References:
 Fruetel, K. M., Duckworth, R. C., Scott, S. L., & Fenderson, E. N. (2021). Exploring the experiences of counselors responding to crisis in rural communities. Journal of Rural Mental Health.
 
 Jaques-Leonard, M. L., Winnick, J. B., Chancey, L. P., Golden, M. E., Gavazzi, J., Brehm, L., Heier, J., Wicoff, M., Rutt, C., & Hosterman, S. (2020). Small town living: Unique ethical challenges of rural pediatric integrated primary care. Clinical Practice in Pediatric Psychology. Advance online publication.
 
 McCord, C. E., Elliott, T. R., Wendel, M. L., Brossart, D. F., Cano, M. A., Gonzalez, G. E., & Burdine, J. N. (2011). Community capacity and teleconference counseling in rural Texas. Professional Psychology: Research and Practice, 42(6), 521–527.
 
 Schank, J. A., Helbok, C. M., Haldeman, D. C., & Gallardo, M. E. (2010). Challenges and benefits of ethical small-community practice. Professional Psychology: Research and Practice, 41(6), 502–510.
 
 Trawver, K. R., Brocious, H., & Aguiniga, D. M. (2020). Inclusion of rural populations in a sample of current mental health intervention research. Journal of Rural Mental Health, 44(2), 129–142.
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