| Questions: 
      
      
          1. 
          What are the general  stages to recovery?2. 
          What are the steps which can help  client’s get through the first few months after a divorce or separation?
 3. 
          What are the  considerations for divorced or separated parents regarding the children?
 4. 
          What are the basic anger  management techniques which can be implemented regarding a divorced or  separated client?
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          What are the methods for  regaining self worth?
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          What are the steps to becoming  aware of intimate discontent?
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          What are the steps in  uncertainty training?
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          What are the emotional losses  experienced by the divorced client following infidelity?
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          What are the  common characteristics  of a divorced and self critical client with the hanging judge syndrome?
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          What are the types of stress  symptoms regarding divorced clients?
 11. 
          What are the  steps in the  adjustment phase of substance use?
 12. 
          What are  the indications of hidden issues?
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          What are  the  basic steps to the speaker listener technique?
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          What are the steps to  forgiveness which can help clients cope with divorce?
 
 
 | Answers:A. self-hatred,  injustice, and lack of compassion for oneself.
 B. eliminating the idea,  unrestricting the idea, acknowledging personal worth, and the compassionate  perspective.
 C. experiencing feelings and defining what is wanted, and rediscovering old  strategies.
 D. telling them what’s happening, reassure children with certainty,  lifting blame, influencing a child’s development, and avoiding bad mouthing.
 E. They are hurting in the first few months, exploring in the first  year, and becoming you in the next couple of years.
 F. wheel spinning, trivial  triggers, avoidance, and scorekeeping.
 G. the loss of the sense of  specialness, the loss of self-respect, the loss of the feeling of control, the  loss of a sense of order, and the loss of a sense of purpose.
 H. forgiveness gets the hate out, self forgiveness, and forgiving the  former spouse.
 I. see a lawyer, plan finances, let  people know, make a comfortable nest, and treat yourself.
 J. taking time out, finding harmless  ways to release anger, talk your feelings out, and talking to the anger target  without blaming or name calling.
 K. common  symptoms and unique symptoms.
 L. the speaker has the floor, share  the floor, no problem solving,  avoiding mind reading, don’t go on and on, and stop and let the listener  paraphrase.
 M. erosion of trust,  avoidance and control, the family becomes reactive, communication breakdown,  and monitoring.
 N. Step one was examining the  costs and benefits of accepting uncertainty and step two was flooding with  uncertainty.
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