What are the general stages to recovery?
What are the steps which can help client’s get through the first few months after a divorce or separation?
What are the considerations for divorced or separated parents regarding the children?
What are the basic anger management techniques which can be implemented regarding a divorced or separated client?
What are the methods for regaining self worth?
What are the steps to becoming aware of intimate discontent?
What are the steps in uncertainty training?
What are the emotional losses experienced by the divorced client following infidelity?
What are the common characteristics of a divorced and self critical client with the hanging judge syndrome?
What are the types of stress symptoms regarding divorced clients?
What are the steps in the adjustment phase of substance use?
What are the indications of hidden issues?
What are the basic steps to the speaker listener technique?
What are the steps to forgiveness which can help clients cope with divorce?
A. self-hatred, injustice, and lack of compassion for oneself.
B. eliminating the idea, unrestricting the idea, acknowledging personal worth, and the compassionate perspective.
C. experiencing feelings and defining what is wanted, and rediscovering old strategies.
D. telling them what’s happening, reassure children with certainty, lifting blame, influencing a child’s development, and avoiding bad mouthing.
E. They are hurting in the first few months, exploring in the first year, and becoming you in the next couple of years.
F. wheel spinning, trivial triggers, avoidance, and scorekeeping.
G. the loss of the sense of specialness, the loss of self-respect, the loss of the feeling of control, the loss of a sense of order, and the loss of a sense of purpose.
H. forgiveness gets the hate out, self forgiveness, and forgiving the former spouse.
I. see a lawyer, plan finances, let people know, make a comfortable nest, and treat yourself.
J. taking time out, finding harmless ways to release anger, talk your feelings out, and talking to the anger target without blaming or name calling.
K. common symptoms and unique symptoms.
L. the speaker has the floor, share the floor, no problem solving, avoiding mind reading, don’t go on and on, and stop and let the listener paraphrase.
M. erosion of trust, avoidance and control, the family becomes reactive, communication breakdown, and monitoring.
N. Step one was examining the costs and benefits of accepting uncertainty and step two was flooding with uncertainty.